- In my opinion I feel as if women should wait until they are 30 to have children because that’s a perfect age . Not to young not to old and most adults life is settled around that time and a baby can be at piece with life and the parent shouldn’t have to struggle because having a child at a young age can be a blessing but it also can put you through a lot of stuff if you aren’t mentally and physically ready to have a child . You should wait until you’re ready not because someone is telling you to have a child because a child is a big responsibility and a human being you can’t treat a child any kind of way so you should just wait until you’re mentally and emotionally ready until financially because having a child isn’t cheap .